Stressed out with this!!
Howdy
This is my first post, and normally I wouldn’t be posting a post like I’m going to be, except I’m not sure where to turn, or where to seek advice, and I was hoping maybe someone would read this and help me out a bit…
The background info:
My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost a year (Oct 05), he was offered his job with a regional in march, graduated in may, and started training a week later…I didn’t think we would make it through training, but we did…and tonight I hate his job, and getting quite upset with him over little stupid things that don’t matter…
the cause tonight:
him not calling me….now yes, we talk to each other and he eventually calls….
I’m upset that’s all there is to it, not only at him but at myself, i get upset with him for not being around, and then upset with myself because I’m upset with him….and it seems no matter how hard i try to explain to him how I’m feeling, he doesn’t get it….
ARE THERE ANY WIVES/GIRLFRIENDS OUT THERE WHO CAN HELP ME OUT….give me advice on how to make our relationship work when I’m ready to give up?? please let me know
Thanks
Posted by butt3rflie1113 on September 17th, 2006 in Uncategorized |
Doogie remarks on September 17th, 2006 at 12:37 am
Try pilotfamilies.com! A very good support network!
CptJsWyf remarks on September 19th, 2006 at 6:23 am
Is he based away from where you live? I feel for you and hear the frustration in your voice. We have all been at this stage at some point, and it does get better. You just have to stay strong and unless he gives you reason - trust him. When you don’t hear from him a million things start running through your head, you are thinking the worst. Stop, take a deep breath - if this guy loves you as much as you obviously love him, give it some time. Email me if you want to talk.
Spbeyond remarks on September 22nd, 2006 at 1:25 pm
Im sorry you feel frustrated. How many days at a time is he gone? Sometimes you just get busy and cant call all the time. I hope you get it worked out but he is a pilot and will be gone almost more than he is home and its not going to change.